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Email template to ask a florist for a wedding flower quote

You have a wedding date and a venue, and you need flowers: a bouquet for the person walking down the aisle, boutonnieres (the small pinned flowers for the wedding party), pieces for the ceremony, and centerpieces for the reception tables. Florists price all of this by the stem and by the labor to build and deliver it, so two shops can be a thousand dollars apart for the same look.

Email is the right first move because a florist needs your date, venue, headcount and color palette before they can say anything useful, and you want those numbers in writing so you can lay three quotes side by side. A phone call gets you a range; an email gets you an itemized proposal you can hold them to.

Before you send

  • Your wedding date, ceremony and reception venue names, and the time the venue lets vendors set up. Florists check the date first, because they take a limited number of weddings per weekend.
  • A count of what you need: bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, ceremony pieces, and how many reception tables need centerpieces.
  • Three to five photos of arrangements you like, ready to attach or link. Color words mean different things to different people; pictures do not.
  • A budget range you are comfortable sharing. Florists design to a number, and hiding it just adds a round of revisions.
  • Whether you want the florist to collect rentals (vases, arches, candle holders) after the event, since pickup is often a separate line.
Subject Wedding flower quote for [wedding date] at [venue name]
Hi [florist or shop name],

I'm getting married on [wedding date] at [ceremony venue], with the reception at [reception venue, or "the same location"], and I'd like a quote for the flowers.

Here is what I'm looking for:

- [number] bridal bouquet(s) and [number] bridesmaid bouquets
- [number] boutonnieres and [number] corsages
- Ceremony flowers: [describe, for example "two arrangements at the altar and petals for the aisle"]
- Centerpieces for [number] reception tables, plus a sweetheart or head table piece
- Colors: [your palette, for example "white, blush and sage green"]

I've attached a few photos of the style I like. My budget for flowers is around [budget range]. Vendors can set up at the venue from [setup time] on the day.

Could you send me an itemized proposal with delivery and setup included, and let me know whether you're available that date? I'm choosing a florist by [decision date].

Thanks,
[Your name]
[Your phone number]

Everything in brackets is yours to fill in. Keep the rest as it is or change the tone to match how you write.

After you send

  • A good florist replies with availability and either an itemized proposal or a short list of questions. Silence for a week on a date less than six months away is your answer.
  • Read the proposal for what is not there: delivery, setup, teardown, rental pickup and sales tax are the lines that show up later. Ask for the all-in total.
  • If the quote is over budget, do not walk away yet. Ask what they would cut to hit your number. Swapping expensive flowers for in-season ones and shrinking centerpieces usually closes the gap.
  • Get two more quotes with the same email and the same photos. Compare the totals, not the flower lists, and book the one whose proposal was clear and prompt.

Or don't send it yourself

Forward the job to myagent@standinfor.me and let StandIn run the whole thread.

StandIn is an email assistant that handles conversations with businesses for you. You write it one email saying what you need. It writes to the business, waits for the answer, follows up when they go quiet, pushes back on the number when it should, and brings the results back to your inbox for you to decide. You don't need to install an app or sign up. The first email you send is already the start of the task.

Hand this to StandIn opens an email to myagent@standinfor.me with the job already written out

To myagent@standinfor.me Subject Get me wedding flower quotes
Hi StandIn,

Please get me itemized quotes from florists for my wedding and find out who is available.

The date: [wedding date].
The venues: [ceremony venue and reception venue, with vendor setup time if known].
What I need: [number of bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, ceremony pieces and reception tables].
Colors and style: [palette and a link to photos I like].
My budget: [budget range].
Florists to start with: [names or "find well-reviewed florists near the venue"].

Contact three or four shops, answer their questions, and bring me the proposals side by side with the all-in total for each, including delivery and setup.

Thanks,
[Your name]